What Does Matthew 6:16-18 Mean?
Matthew 6:16-18 describes how Jesus teaches about fasting in a way that honors God, not impresses people. He warns against looking gloomy or drawing attention to ourselves when we fast, like the hypocrites who want praise. Instead, He says to wash our face and anoint our head, keeping our fasting private. The core idea is simple: what we do for God should be for Him, not for show.
Matthew 6:16-18
"And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward." But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
Key Facts
Book
Author
Matthew
Genre
Gospel
Date
Approximately 80-90 AD
Key People
Key Themes
Key Takeaways
- Fasting should honor God, not impress people.
- True devotion is seen by God alone.
- God rewards what’s done in secret.
Context and Meaning of Matthew 6:16-18
Jesus gives this teaching on fasting as part of the Sermon on the Mount, where He shows what true faith looks like from the heart.
He previously taught that giving to the needy and praying in private should be done without seeking attention. Now He applies the same principle to fasting: don’t look sad or dirty to prove you’re fasting, because that’s what hypocrites do to get noticed.
Instead, Jesus says to wash your face and comb your hair so only God knows you’re fasting. He sees what no one else can, and He will reward you - not with praise from people, but with His blessing.
What Fasting Meant in Jesus' Time - and Why Anointing Your Head Was Radical
To understand Jesus’ words fully, we need to see how fasting was practiced in Jewish culture - and why His instructions to wash your face and anoint your head would have sounded surprising.
Fasting then was more than abstaining from food; it signaled sorrow, repentance, or deep spiritual need, and some expressed it by wearing rough clothes, covering their heads in dust, or leaving their faces unwashed, as described in Jeremiah 4:23-31. These outward signs were culturally recognized, almost like a public badge of piety. Jesus isn’t impressed by that kind of performance. He says those who fast to be seen have already received their reward in the attention they get.
Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
The phrase 'anoint your head' would have stood out because anointing with oil was something people did on happy occasions, like feasts or celebrations - not during mourning or fasting. By telling His followers to wash their face and anoint their head, Jesus flips the script: your spiritual life isn’t a performance for others, even if culture expects drama and visible grief. What matters is the quiet faithfulness God sees when no one else does.
Fasting in Secret: Why God Cares More About the Heart
Jesus includes this teaching in Matthew’s Gospel because He’s showing what real kingdom living looks like - honest, humble, and lived before God, not performed for people.
Matthew often highlights how Jesus calls His followers to a deeper righteousness than the religious leaders of the day, one that’s not about outward appearances but inner faith. Jeremiah 4:23-31 shows people mourning with disfigured faces and sackcloth, but God sees the heart, not the dirt on our faces.
Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
The timeless truth is this: what you do when no one is watching matters most to God, and He will never overlook your quiet faithfulness.
Fasting That Pleases God: Connecting Jesus’ Teaching to the Heart of the Prophets
Jesus’ call to fast in private isn’t new - it’s the fulfillment of what God has always wanted: hearts turned to Him, not performances for people.
Centuries earlier, God spoke through Isaiah, saying to His people, 'Why have we fasted, and you see it not?' But God replied, 'Behold, in the day of your fast you seek your own pleasure... Is such the fast that I choose?' Then He revealed His heart: 'Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the straps of the yoke... to share your bread with the hungry?' (Isaiah 58:3-7). The prophet Joel urged, 'Rend your hearts and not your garments' (Joel 2:12-13), meaning you should not merely tear your clothes in sorrow; let your heart truly turn to God.
Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
Jesus isn’t starting a new rule. He is restoring the true heart of worship that God always desired - humble, sincere, and lived out before Him alone.
Application
How This Changes Everything: Real Life Impact
I remember the first time I tried to fast - not because I felt drawn to God, but because I wanted someone at church to notice how 'spiritual' I was. I skipped lunch and made sure to mention it casually, hoping for a nod of approval. But inside, I felt hollow. Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:16-18 hit me hard: if I’m fasting to be seen, I’ve already gotten my reward. When I finally fasted in secret - no announcements, no sad face, only me and God - I felt a quiet peace I had never known. It wasn’t about what I was giving up. It was about who I was drawing near. That shift - from performance to presence - changed everything.
Personal Reflection
- When I do something spiritual - like praying, giving, or fasting - do I ever hope someone notices? What does that reveal about where I’m seeking approval?
- What would it look like for me to practice a spiritual discipline this week in complete secrecy, with no one but God knowing?
- Am I more focused on looking faithful or being faithful when no one is watching?
A Challenge For You
This week, choose one day to fast - not to impress anyone, but to draw closer to God. Keep it completely private. Wash your face, go about your day normally, and let this act be between you and your Father. If someone asks if you’re okay, say you’re fine. Let your fast be unseen by others but seen by God.
A Prayer of Response
Father, thank you for seeing me - not only what I do, but why I do it. Forgive me for the times I’ve tried to look spiritual to feel important. Help me to seek your approval above all else. When I give, when I pray, when I fast, let my heart be fixed on you. And thank you that you, the God of the universe, notice even the quiet things no one else sees. I trust you to reward what’s done in secret.
Related Scriptures & Concepts
Immediate Context
Matthew 6:14-15
Jesus links forgiveness to prayer, setting up the theme of genuine relationship with God before addressing fasting.
Matthew 6:19-21
Jesus shifts to treasures in heaven, continuing the call to focus on eternal, unseen rewards.
Connections Across Scripture
Jeremiah 4:23-31
Describes mourning with disfigured faces, showing the cultural backdrop Jesus challenges in Matthew 6:16-18.
1 Samuel 16:7
God looks at the heart, not appearance, reinforcing the principle behind private fasting and devotion.