Narrative

Why Is Ruth 1 Important?: From Bitterness to Belonging


Chapter Summary

Ruth 1 opens in a dark and desperate time, as a famine drives an Israelite family from their home into a foreign land. The chapter chronicles a story of devastating loss, as Naomi loses her husband and both sons, leaving her a widow in Moab. Yet, out of this emptiness emerges one of the Bible's most powerful displays of loyalty, as her daughter-in-law Ruth refuses to leave her side, choosing Naomi's people and Naomi's God as her own.

Core Passages from Ruth 1

  • Ruth 1:16-17But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you."

    Ruth's pledge to Naomi is a stunning vow of loyalty that goes beyond family ties. It is a declaration of new identity, embracing Naomi's people, land, and God as her own, even unto death.
  • Ruth 1:20-21She said to them, "Do not call me Naomi; call me Mara, for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi, when the Lord has testified against me and the Almighty has brought calamity upon me?

    Naomi, whose name means 'pleasant,' renames herself 'Mara,' meaning 'bitter,' expressing her deep grief and feeling that God himself has caused her suffering. Her raw honesty gives voice to the pain of loss.
  • Ruth 1:22So Naomi returned, and Ruth the Moabite her daughter-in-law with her, who returned from the country of Moab. And they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest.

    The chapter ends with a subtle but crucial detail: their arrival in Bethlehem coincides with the beginning of the barley harvest. This small sign of new life and provision serves as a glimmer of hope after a decade of death and famine.
True belonging is found not in shared blood, but in unwavering devotion and the courageous embrace of a chosen family and faith.
True belonging is found not in shared blood, but in unwavering devotion and the courageous embrace of a chosen family and faith.

Historical & Cultural Context

A Journey Born of Desperation

The story is set 'in the days when the judges ruled,' a period of moral chaos and instability in Israel. A famine strikes Bethlehem, ironically meaning 'House of Bread,' forcing Elimelech's family to seek refuge in Moab, a neighboring nation with a history of hostility toward Israel. This decision to leave the promised land for a pagan country is a desperate one, setting the stage for the tragedy that follows.

A Crossroads of Grief and Loyalty

After ten years, tragedy has struck repeatedly, leaving Naomi a widow without her two sons. Hearing that the famine in Judah has ended, she decides to return home. This prompts a heart-wrenching scene on the road where she urges her Moabite daughters-in-law, Orpah and Ruth, to return to their own families for a better future. Their decision at this crossroads will determine the rest of their lives and shape the course of redemptive history.

Embracing the unknown with unwavering devotion, even when paths diverge.
Embracing the unknown with unwavering devotion, even when paths diverge.

A Journey Through Loss, Loyalty, and Return

Ruth 1 unfolds as a journey from the familiar to the foreign and back again, marked by great loss and a pivotal choice. The narrative begins with a family's flight from famine, descends into the grief of widowhood and childlessness, and climaxes with an extraordinary vow of loyalty. The chapter concludes with a bittersweet homecoming, where emptiness and a flicker of hope exist side-by-side.

Tragedy in a Foreign Land  (Ruth 1:1-5)

1 In the days when the judges ruled there was a famine in the land, and a man of Bethlehem in Judah went to sojourn in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two sons.
2 The name of the man was Elimelech and the name of his wife Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Chilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah. They went into the country of Moab and remained there.
3 But Elimelech, the husband of Naomi, died, and she was left with her two sons.
4 They took Moabite wives, the name of the one was Orpah and the name of the other Ruth. They lived there about ten years.
5 Then both Mahlon and Chilion also died, and the woman was left without her two sons and her husband.

Commentary:

An Israelite family seeking refuge in Moab suffers the loss of its three men, leaving Naomi a childless widow.

Driven by famine, Elimelech and Naomi leave their home in Bethlehem with their two sons, Mahlon and Chilion, to live in Moab. What was meant to be a temporary solution turns into a decade-long stay filled with sorrow. Elimelech dies, and though their sons marry Moabite women, Orpah and Ruth, they too die, leaving Naomi utterly alone and bereft of family and security in a foreign land. This string of tragedies strips Naomi of her husband, her children, and any hope for future heirs, setting a tone of complete emptiness.

A Bitter Farewell  (Ruth 1:6-14)

6 Then she arose with her daughters-in-law to return from the country of Moab, for she had heard in the fields of Moab that the Lord had visited his people and given them food.
7 So she set out from the place where she was with her two daughters-in-law, and they went on the way to return to the land of Judah.
8 But Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, "Go, return each of you to her mother's house. May the Lord deal kindly with you, as you have dealt with the dead and with me.
9 The Lord grant that you may find rest, each of you in the house of her husband!”
10 And they said to her, “No, we will return with you to your people.”
11 But Naomi said, “Turn back, my daughters; why will you go with me? Have I yet sons in my womb that they may become your husbands?
12 Turn back, my daughters; go your way, for I am too old to have a husband. If I should say I have hope, even if I should have a husband this night and should bear sons,
13 would you therefore wait till they were grown? Would you therefore refrain from marrying? No, my daughters, for it is exceedingly bitter to me for your sake that the hand of the Lord has gone out against me."
14 Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.

Commentary:

Naomi tries to send her daughters-in-law back to Moab for their own good, and a tearful Orpah agrees to go.

Hearing that the Lord has provided food for her people, Naomi decides to return to Judah. She selflessly urges her daughters-in-law to go back to their mothers' homes, praying that God would grant them the security of new husbands. Though they initially resist, Naomi insists she has nothing left to offer them - no more sons, no future. With great sorrow, Orpah makes the logical choice to return to her people, but Ruth remains, clinging to her mother-in-law.

Ruth's Unbreakable Vow  (Ruth 1:15-18)

15 And she said, "See, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law."
16 But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God.
17 Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you."
18 And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more.

Commentary:

Ruth makes a solemn vow to stay with Naomi, embracing her people, her land, and her God as her own.

When Naomi presses Ruth to follow Orpah 'back to her people and to her gods,' Ruth responds with one of the most powerful declarations of commitment in all of Scripture. She vows to go where Naomi goes, live where she lives, and adopt Naomi's people and God as her own. This is more than family loyalty. It is a complete conversion and a radical act of faith, binding herself to Naomi and the God of Israel for life. Seeing her determination, Naomi says no more.

Homecoming to an Empty Life  (Ruth 1:19-22)

19 So the two of them went on until they came to Bethlehem. And when they came to Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred because of them. And the women said, "Is this Naomi?"
20 She said to them, "Do not call me Naomi; call me Mara, for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me.
21 I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi, when the Lord has testified against me and the Almighty has brought calamity upon me?
22 So Naomi returned, and Ruth the Moabite her daughter-in-law with her, who returned from the country of Moab. And they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest.

Commentary:

Naomi and Ruth arrive in Bethlehem, where Naomi expresses her bitterness over her losses, but their arrival at harvest time hints at hope.

When the two women arrive in Bethlehem, the whole town is stirred, barely recognizing the woman who left years before. Naomi, whose name means 'pleasant,' tells them to call her 'Mara,' which means 'bitter,' because she feels the Almighty has afflicted her. She laments leaving full and returning empty, openly expressing her deep grief and sense of loss. The chapter closes on a small but significant note of hope: they arrived at the beginning of the barley harvest, a sign of new life and God's provision.

Finding God in Grief and Loyalty

God's Hidden Providence

Throughout the chapter, God seems absent or even, as Naomi claims, hostile. Yet, the story subtly shows His hand at work, guiding Naomi home at the exact time of the harvest. This theme of providence - God's unseen guidance - reveals that He is orchestrating a plan of redemption even when circumstances appear bleak.

Hesed: Covenant Loyalty

Ruth's vow to Naomi is a perfect illustration of 'hesed,' a Hebrew word for loyal, steadfast love that goes beyond duty or obligation. Her selfless commitment to a mother-in-law with no future prospects mirrors the covenant-keeping love that God shows to His people. It is this human expression of hesed that becomes the vehicle for God's blessing.

From Emptiness to Fullness

The central emotional journey of the chapter is from fullness to emptiness. Naomi declares, 'I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty' (Ruth 1:21). This sets the stage for the rest of the book, which will show how God takes Naomi's emptiness and, through Ruth's faithfulness, fills it beyond all expectation.

Inclusion of the Outsider

As a Moabite, Ruth was an outsider and, according to the law, excluded from the assembly of Israel. Her willing adoption of Israel's God and her welcome into the community challenge ethnic and religious boundaries. This theme shows that God's grace is not limited by nationality and that He often chooses the unlikely to accomplish His purposes.

The enduring power of chosen kinship transcends the bonds of circumstance and the pain of separation.
The enduring power of chosen kinship transcends the bonds of circumstance and the pain of separation.

Lessons from Loss and Loyalty

How does Naomi's story give us permission to be honest with God about our pain?

Naomi doesn't hide her feelings. She openly tells her community, 'the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me' (Ruth 1:20). Her example shows that you can bring your raw, unfiltered grief and even anger to God. Faith involves clinging to God even when you feel broken, not pretending you're okay.

What does Ruth's choice teach us about the nature of true commitment?

Ruth's commitment to Naomi was costly, offering her no worldly security or advantage. Her vow in Ruth 1:16-17 teaches that true loyalty is not based on convenience but on selfless love. It challenges you to consider if your commitments to God and others remain strong when they require personal sacrifice.

Where can we find hope when, like Naomi, we feel we have returned 'empty'?

Naomi felt completely empty, yet the chapter ends with a sign of hope: 'they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest' (Ruth 1:22). This reminds you that even in seasons of great loss, God provides small glimmers of new beginnings. Hope can be found in the quiet presence of a loyal friend and in the first signs of God's provision, even when the full picture is not yet clear.

God's Faithfulness in Our Emptiness

The first chapter of Ruth plunges us into a world of famine, death, and bitterness, showing that faith does not grant immunity from suffering. Yet, in the midst of Naomi's despair, the quiet, steadfast loyalty of one foreign woman changes everything. The message is that God's redemptive work often begins in our emptiness, unfolding through the seemingly small, faithful choices of ordinary people who choose love in the face of loss.

What This Means for Us Today

Ruth's story is an invitation to choose loyalty when it is easier to walk away. Her pledge, 'Where you go I will go,' models a covenant love that mirrors God's own commitment to us. This chapter invites us to see God's hand in grand miracles and in the quiet faithfulness of human relationships that He uses to bring about His purposes.

  • Who in your life is God calling you to show radical loyalty to, even at a personal cost?
  • How can you look for the 'barley harvest' - the small signs of new beginnings - in your own seasons of loss?
  • When you feel empty or bitter like Naomi, how can Ruth's example of active faithfulness encourage you to take the next step?
Embracing the unknown future with unwavering loyalty and deep familial love.
Embracing the unknown future with unwavering loyalty and deep familial love.

Further Reading

Immediate Context

This chapter concludes the book of Judges, highlighting the moral and spiritual chaos where 'everyone did what was right in his own eyes,' providing a dark backdrop for the personal faithfulness found in Ruth.

The story continues as Ruth's loyalty leads her to a field to glean, where she encounters Boaz and God's hidden plan of provision begins to unfold.

Connections Across Scripture

This law forbidding Moabites from entering 'the assembly of the Lord' highlights the radical nature of God's grace in accepting Ruth into the community of Israel.

Ruth, the Moabite, is named in the genealogy of Jesus, showing how her act of faith had an eternal impact on God's plan of salvation for the whole world.

This passage explains the origins of the Moabite people, providing the historical context for the animosity between Israel and Moab and making Ruth's story of inclusion even more remarkable.

Discussion Questions

  • Naomi believed 'the hand of the Lord has gone out against me' (Ruth 1:13). Have you ever felt this way? How does this chapter challenge or comfort you in those feelings?
  • Compare Orpah's decision to leave with Ruth's decision to stay. Was Orpah's choice wrong or practical? What does their differing responses reveal about the cost of radical faith?
  • Ruth's vow in verses 16-17 is a commitment to Naomi, her people, and her God. What does it look like to make that kind of selfless commitment to God and His community today?

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